just say no

                                                                                   Just say no!

No,not and don't seems to be very inconsequential but considerably they carries a massive power within them which is understood only by few people. Women in the society has been supressed by men for several years even still now they have been ruled by them but these ladies are in vain, they cannot say NO to the domination faced by them. These two letters word ''NO'' is very troublesome in few's life while on other hand some people use them as their weapon. When someone stops you from doing something they clearly mention DON'T do this, DON'T do that etc.  

Can you see the power? Well, I can feel no plays a vital role in everyone's life. Being a girl this word has a different place in life only which can not be replaced by any other word or thing. 

However it is not at all easy to say NO to anyone by anyone then whether it will be animal also. For an instance if your dog is playing with you and you are getting hurt by him. Can you will be in a position to say NO to that faithful creature? No, right. Then just imagine how difficult to say no to humans. But sometime we get into a situation that will harm us in such a way that we become absolutely restless, so reluctantly we got no choice. In that situation ought to say NO to anyone whether it is your bestfriend, soulmate or parents too. 

One should clearly understand and respect that NO uttered by any fellow being in this entire cosmos. However the sad reality of our country is none respect your deny and thus they feel awful. This society considers NO as a negative symbol and never understand that it may works as apositive weapon in many cases. If anyone says NO I do not want or say I do not like then the sentiments of people hurt so much that they feels direspectful or unhonourable. As a result they does n't consent their no and do whatever they are willing to do.

I think the statistics is gradually increasing of rape cases in our country because of the reason that people can not understand the meaning of NO, NO means NO. If a girl says no it is considered to be no then whether it is uttered by your sister, girlfriend, mother, sex worker or even your own wife.

No is not only a word it is a full sentence in itself and thus it doesn't needs any consent and further explanation or questions. Why don't everyone understand that the other person is not ready to volunteer then they should backoff immediately rather forcing her in some practices. If this thing gets stuck into humans mind then the cases will be considerably decrease. 

Saying yes is pleasing for others but then what about your own sentiments and feeling. One should understand that we are not Born to please everyone, we are not people pleasers. If our NO hurts them then its absolutely fine. Because learning how to say no and setting up your own boundaries gives you a different pleasure and happiness. It shows your self respect, if you are being available every time for a particular person then you will realise that they will suddenly stop caring for you and treat you as an option. People usually thinks in such cases that these person will always will be there for me no matter what so we can do anything, they become liberal enough to take undoadvantage of your wisdom. The act of denying to peers by teenagers are such a breath taking task, when you are offred a ciggarate and you say NO they are considered as uncool being. These types of thinkings are succesful in engagement of more then half teenagers in adduction of toxinated drinks and drugs. ''Sharing is caring'', but sharing every single thing is not caring. For an instance if your roomate ask every other thing daily and you doesn't like this behaviour, you will be in a very tough situation if you doesn't like to say no. It becomes challenge in one's life, biggest fear for other, and a heartbreak for one or maybe hurdle in someone's life. 

One should always remember that there is no such shame in saying no. Delete that feeling which you feel when you say no to someone. You get scared by the responses after saying no and thus you encounter youself in unfavourable situation . Also at the end of the day if you can't or don't want to do anything , then you are not responsible it. So just don't consider yourself responsible for everyone's feelings and emotions. Moreover you should never forget that saying yes is also needed. Think twice every time then give answer with all your conscience. Never regret anything after saying NO , thats when you will be happy and positive and enable to carry any relationship for longer time.